Welcome to the Blog for my book I've Been There...My Testimony of Hope.

This blog is a mixed bag, no holds barred mix of back stories, information, updates, and connection links to I've Been There...A Testimony of Hope. It has links inks.

My hubs David and I are committed to sharing CHANGE MAKING COMMUNICATIONS to inspire life-affirming changes at any age and stage of life. promote the idea that it is never too late to be great and to live our very best lives.

We welcome and appreciate all supporters. Together we are stronger, and that is the message of I've Been There...A Testimony of Hope.

The who, what, when and why of my book

For years prior to writing this book, my hubs David, clients and friends urged me to share the who, what, when and why of where I was and where I am today.

Oddly it was a quote that framed things in a way that made sense to share my healing and spiritual path from the "there to my healthy, happy here. The essence of the quote was, "those who have walked through the fires and became a Phoenix have a moral responsibility to give the lessons back to give other their transformational wings."

The girl in the shadows on the book jacket was me back "there.| " I wrote this book as a testimony of hope and chronicale how my scars were turned into Lodestars that guide my and others I share our Change Making ideas with today. My book is an offering and affirmation that it is not what happens to us that defines who and what we become. Instead, it is how we respond and choose to do about it.

Bright blessings on your own journey,
Raia

Coralie "Raia" Darsey-Malloy

About Me

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First up...I wear many hats, literally and figuratively. I write professionally and along with my memoir I've Been There...My Testimony of Hope I have written a variety of books on healthy dynamic living. My hubs David and I co own and co-direct Change Making Communications . We share ideas through blogs, Face Book Groups, You Tube, free lance writing, presentations inprivate and group facilitation dynamic living live coaching. David and I have been partners in life and business since 1990. We have no intention of retiring because we know that it is only work if you don't life it and we love what we do.

Friday, January 20, 2012

AWARENESS AND TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANGE



My life and business partner David and I keep coming up in my thoughts about the  importance of remaining mindful and conscious as much as possible throughout the day.  This has to do with dealing with misconceptions of ourselves and others, as well as our expectations of ourselves and others too. It's important to think about expectations and what they are based on. Societal, familial or self expectations can be undermining in so many ways. from relationships, motivation and the  growth we seek.  

It is time to release all the inner and outer noise and  develop the clarity about how each of us fits  within existing structures and  systems--or not. David and I are a place in life where we no longer feel the need to be tied down to any structure or system. Instead we choose to believe that we are here  to break free from them and live with the idea that there is no ceiling to how good life can be.  Within the growing awareness within society there is greater acceptance that  there’s always multiple ways to do them, and sometimes brand new ways to do them. W hen you push someone in one direction forcefully, the opposite direction will become more attractive for  that person.  Don’t push anyone to do or follow something forcefully, it will only lead to destruction, but instead of compelling  stand beside and guide them with love and understanding, give people time, ask them to take it slowly and at the  end you will see the beauty within them. 





Many of  old systems don’t apply anymore and no longer work. Change can be channeling because they are what people know and familiar with and they may accept things without questions. During sessions with clients we encourage them   to think beyond existing parameters. Critical thinking re-frames old archives and assists in more neutral, objective thinking rather than boxing ides in with  long lists of rules and regulations.  It is time to more  questions and decide what is valid for who we are and where we are, who are the authorities and who is making the rules we live by. 

There are many who are   beginning to shatter old perceptions and begin thinking beyond limitation. It is a time to begin thinking outside the box and opening up to other aspects of who we are within our Divinity.  We are not here to fit in at any cost. We are being called to break free of old patterns, delusions and conditioned existence. As we transform your inner world and heighten awareness it  creates a ripple effect that inspires other people to break free old ties that used to bind.  Within our  personal and professional experience we  believe this  applies to anyone who is interested in transforming and awakening to broader perspectives  life. As we do it opens the way to live a more self-accountable life  as we work with the law of  cause/effect/choice/consequence. 




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