Sharing ideas and a video about how people are in our lives for a reason, season or lifetime.

When I decided to write my book I found the process challenging and therapeutic. When I went back over the time-lines in my life I went through some stages of grief that I had not worked through when I was in the circumstances. It is never easy to say goodbye, or accept that there are people in our lives for a reason, season or lifetime.


I've Been There is a testimony of hope because it shows that even thought we all undergo hardships, breakups, and narcissistic wounds, which shatter the flattering image that we had of ourselves. The process is positive in the end because it assists us in in discovering that often we and those we love are not who we thought and the loss of a cherished pleasure is not necessarily the loss of true happiness and well-being. The reasons and season relationships are often more frequent than the lifetime ones and this video serves as a wonderful reminder of that reality.