Welcome to the Blog for my book I've Been There...My Testimony of Hope.

This blog is a mixed bag, no holds barred mix of back stories, information, updates, and connection links to I've Been There...A Testimony of Hope. It has links inks.

My hubs David and I are committed to sharing CHANGE MAKING COMMUNICATIONS to inspire life-affirming changes at any age and stage of life. promote the idea that it is never too late to be great and to live our very best lives.

We welcome and appreciate all supporters. Together we are stronger, and that is the message of I've Been There...A Testimony of Hope.

The who, what, when and why of my book

For years prior to writing this book, my hubs David, clients and friends urged me to share the who, what, when and why of where I was and where I am today.

Oddly it was a quote that framed things in a way that made sense to share my healing and spiritual path from the "there to my healthy, happy here. The essence of the quote was, "those who have walked through the fires and became a Phoenix have a moral responsibility to give the lessons back to give other their transformational wings."

The girl in the shadows on the book jacket was me back "there.| " I wrote this book as a testimony of hope and chronicale how my scars were turned into Lodestars that guide my and others I share our Change Making ideas with today. My book is an offering and affirmation that it is not what happens to us that defines who and what we become. Instead, it is how we respond and choose to do about it.

Bright blessings on your own journey,
Raia

Coralie "Raia" Darsey-Malloy

About Me

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First up...I wear many hats, literally and figuratively. I write professionally and along with my memoir I've Been There...My Testimony of Hope I have written a variety of books on healthy dynamic living. My hubs David and I co own and co-direct Change Making Communications . We share ideas through blogs, Face Book Groups, You Tube, free lance writing, presentations inprivate and group facilitation dynamic living live coaching. David and I have been partners in life and business since 1990. We have no intention of retiring because we know that it is only work if you don't life it and we love what we do.

Sunday, March 6, 2011

CHANGING TIMES AND EMERGING SELF-AWARENESS

We are living in changing times and with all the panic about what the coming of 2012 will bring I believe that there are many are becoming more awake and alive.  Buddhism teaches that we need to break free of what they call "conditioned existence and unlearn the faulty knowledge we have gained based on current and even previous lifetimes for those who subscribe to that idea.

This has to do with dealing with misconceptions of ourselves and others, as well as our expectations of ourselves and others too. It's important to think  about expectations and what they are based on. Societal, familial, cultural, religious or any other mind set that may  be undermining our ability to think outside and beyond the box of existing beliefs. 


There are so many people who are fighting themselves and others over old hurts, resentments, wars, power struggles and anything else that blocks the ability to love, honor and respect differences. We have lived with polarity and duality far too long. If we are to truly realize our highest potentials. We will be able to do that when we awaken to the realization that with enough love we could resolve all our human rights and global concerns. David and I live with a motto to "love more!"

It is time  to release all the noises of voices around us and within us and develop the spiritual clarity to live from heart and Source-centered awareness. Let us break free from the dictates of the "shoulds, right/wrong,/black/white and towards unity, cooperation and consensus within our Oneness. 
 

Within this here and now it is time to accept that there isn’t one way to do  things. There’s always multiple ways to do them, and sometimes some radically new ways to do them.  Many of  old systems don’t apply anymore. They no  longer work for you, but they are what so many have  been taught and hold onto. For others we believe it is time to disengage from  self-limiting beliefs, anarchy, dictatorships and many of the delusions that come with them. 

The outer is always a reflection of our inner landscape and everything we need to know comes from within. Our task is to center, relax, release, open and allow ourselves to receive the spiritual clarity that comes within. 



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